Constructive gadfly
Published on March 19, 2004 By stevendedalus In Blogging
 JoeUser.com seems a war zone for ideologies. Still, this is not at all surprising inasmuch as the media, including the Internet, have been overrun by ideological pundits and talking heads. Many of us bloggers try to be eclectic yet unwittingly allow our precepts to get the better of us. For instance, we all agree with, and count our blessings for, the Constitution, yet tend to disagree or agree with some of its parts that require explanation and is subsequently appealed in the courts to rule on the law of the land. Others, however, show great strength in accepting the ruling while others carry on like children with loud resentment. Gore showed this great strength in believing in constitutional law in his unparalleled concession speech, which few acknowledge as a lesson in greatness and humility. On the other hand, there are those who are not satisfied with the law of the land and prefer to push for petty amendments, such as defining marriage out of defense against even pettier moves to challenge the law against same-sex marriage, even though an increasingly enlightened majority favors civil unions and all benefits thereof.

So, too, are petty movements to challenge the Constitution in matters that have heretofore been just and good, such as “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the exercise thereof;...” and implicit in this is that religion shall make no demands of government to establish a national faith. In spite of its clarity those of particular faiths and non-faiths have challenged by insisting on school prayer, religious icons in public places and unmitigated denial of any spirit of faith whatsoever.

This said the first Bill of Rights does not prohibit ancillary, material customs of faiths like the Christmas tree, Santa Claus, ashes on the forehead, ceremonial marriage, generic prayer in congress, wearing of the cross or star of David, and unlike France, the wearing of Islamic headdress, yet those of non-faith oppose any such displays; however, they are wrong for the simple reason without said customs they are reducing all those of faith to the common denominator of atheism and stark abstention, denying them freedom of religious expression. Unfortunately it is customary for religious institutions to deny gay couples the same right of expression in the sanctity of marriage.

Similar to this is the media watchers who are offended by sexuality and hold only “liberals” responsible for such heresy as though the left brings up its children under loose communal amorality. Is it only the left that is mesmerized by Janet or Britney and gangster rap? In spite of the myth that the media are controlled by liberals, is it not true that most like WB, CBS, Viacom, NBC and film studios are run by exploitative hard right CEOs ravenous for the youth market?

Of course, there are different postures on issues such as affirmative action wherein the right fails to acknowledge the affirmative action in behalf of the privileged while the left feels their should be an equal balance for those historically kept down for generations, but in so doing deny those without the stark historical disadvantage, but currently equally in need of a head start. The right, too, fails to acknowledge the problem of the medically insured by reasoning that they are irresponsible in not taking out insurance on their own just because their employer does not offer it and despite the prohibitive cost. The left, on the other hand, are socialistic in espousing universal healthcare, even though the proposal actually lifts the burden from all employers.

People who bottom out are assessed as shiftless and lacking self-reliance with which all those on the right are gifted, and God forbid the left should champion these dumb asses by taking into account the probability, though surely improbable cases, that they’ve been victimized by conditions beyond their control — let them eat cake should be the posture of true Americans. Yet the left is accused of blindness to the other point of view and should with godlike sensitivity accede to the right’s exclusive wisdom.

            

Copyright © 2004 Richard R. Kennedy All rights reserved. Revised: March 19, 2004.


Comments
on Mar 19, 2004

It's not that conservatives have no sympathy for the poor. It is that so many of them are poor due to their own actions. Not necessarily foolishness but the state they find themselves in in terms of needing government assistance is very often a result of their actions.

People like me support having a safety net.  What we don't support are calls to extend it even further. And we tend to resent the ingratitude we receive.  I've stated a few times (it's tax season).  My tax in 2003 came out to be in the six figure range. I don't expect to receive thank you notes. But at the same time, I get weary of people who aren't paying into the system telling ME how I'm greedy when it's people like me who are realistically paying the bills. 

And so often we see people not only spit upon those who, as a practical matter, are the most giving to the system of all, but not really doing anything to better their conditions.

One person on JoeUser bravely admitted she was receiving public assistance. But she's trying to better her condition by going to school. At least she acknowledges that government assistance is, essentially charity. On the other hand, you have people on this very site who are either currently on the dole or have in the past who take the attitude that they've earned it and that people like me should do even more to help them because they're unwilling/unable to help themselves.

But more than all of that is the quiet suspicion by conservatives that there is nothing moral at all about the left's desire to "champion" the (as you say) "dumbasses". That in reality, the left is merely trying to create their own power base of those who are hopelessy dependent on the system.

Consider this little fact: There are 6 very active female posters on this site. You know who they are. The 3 conservatives are people who have faced adversity but are married and if they have children thad those children while being married.  The 3 left of center females are presently receiving government aid. Two of the three had children out of wedlock. Despite this, I have concluded that all 3 are GOOD people. All 3 have faced adversity and reacted to it in different ways. But at the same time, 2 of the 3, from their own words, pretty clearly put themselves in the situation they're in. That doesn't make them bad people. It doesn't make them "losers". But it doesn't make them noble either.

So let's cut the whole moral brigade crap shall we? The ones supporting more government aid tend to be people who receive them.  The ones against more government aid tend to be people who haven't received them.  Self-interest seems to be at work to a certain extent. I'm against more aid not just because I would have to pay yet more. But because I believe too much "help" disempowers people and makes them dependents of the system.

And as you learned, the hard way today, the conservatives have had just as much, if not more, adversity to face than the other side.

I get so tired of left-wingers trying to paint conservatives as incompassionate monsters as if their side is somehow more moralistic because they support confiscating mroe money from the producers of society to hand over to those who are not currently producing for society.

I am not suggesting either side is better than the other. Far from it. But spare us your moral indignation. Particularly after your article in which you implied Karmagirl somehow had never had to face adverisity when in fact she's faced more than any of the "victims" you've felt necessary to speak up for.

But I will say this, the title of your article is apt.

on Mar 19, 2004
This article got an inspirational and a loud woohoo from me!!

Consider this little fact: There are 6 very active female posters on this site. You know who they are. The 3 conservatives are people who have faced adversity but are married and if they have children thad those children while being married. The 3 left of center females are presently receiving government aid. Two of the three had children out of wedlock (possibly all 3 but I'm not sure on the third). None of the three are married.
Brad Wardell, I consider myself to be an active female on this site. Is one of the women you are referring to, me?

on Mar 19, 2004
And also Brad Wardell, I will quote for you here, the comment I just left on KarmaGirl's blog.

Reply #9 By: WiseFawn - 3/19/2004 8:01:51 PM

I'm glad that you shared your story. It is always good to know where someone is coming from. It's wonderful that you have that inner strength and I'm guessing wonderful support from your husband and your boss! And your honesty has inspired me to share a bit of my story with you. I have a lovely 22 year old daughter, who has been ill for all of her life. Among other things, she, too has auto immune disaease, which so far has come out in Crohn's Disease, Graves Disease and Arthitis. Her teenage years were the worse, physically. She went through a time of being on prednisone and about twelve other meds along with chemotherapy. After a trip to the doctor, we came home to find that my husband had packed and left, leaving a twenty dollar bill and a note. He cold no longer handle her sicknesses. I was homeschooling her at the time. I started a business to be able to continue schooling her and be there with her. I asked for assitance. I could not afford her meds, doctor's visits, tests, etc. She is a lovely young woman, never for a second letting her illness define her, either.
Great post!
on Mar 19, 2004
Brad Wardell, I will sit here all night if I have to waiting for your response.
on Mar 19, 2004
No, I know enough now, I do not need to waste my time on a nice Friday night.
on Mar 19, 2004

Well do you fit the criteria Wisefawn? Let's think about it:

1) You believe the government needs to do more for the poor than it already does.

2) You believe people receiving government aid "have earned it".

3) You are or were on government aid.

Does this make you bad? No.

But it doesn't make me bad either if I oppose doing more.  You tend to write how you feel attacked in response to those who disagree with your views. Well, welcome to my world. I have to put up with people making me sound like I'm some heartless person who's never faced adversity simply because I object to paying even more money to other people.

I believe that most people who receive government aid (not all, most) could look back and see how their own choices led to the position they're in. I read your story and I think you have done your best to do what is right.  Don't mistake my opposition to your political views as believing you are somehow a bad person. I think you're a good person. I think you have faced a great deal of adversity in your life.

My response isn't to condemn those on the left.  My response is to DEFEND those of us on the right who get pasted as being a bunch of heartless bastards.

Stevenandalous had the gall today to imply that those of us who believe in self-reliance haven't faced adversity. After which Karmagirl wrote her article giving her tail. You'll find that most people face various levels of adversity. You know about some of which I've faced. 

Just as you believe your views are based on principle, us conservatives see our views also based on principle.

on Mar 19, 2004

But let me give you just an example of rank hypocricy in Steveandalous's article:

On the other hand, there are those who are not satisfied with the law of the land and prefer to push for petty amendments, such as defining marriage out of defense against even pettier moves to challenge the law against same-sex marriage, even though an increasingly enlightened majority favors civil unions and all benefits thereof.

Even though the people of California and elsewhere have passed laws expressly stating that marriage is between a man and a woman, liberals don't try to change the law, they just ignore it (Mayor of San Francisco for instance). At least conservatives try to use the established framework to enact changes. Liberals just shrug off the law as if they are too good for it.

What liberals have shown, time and time again is that they have little respect for democracy. Instead, they tend to use judges and lawsuits to get their way bypassing the electorate entirely. Roe vs. Wade is a prime example. Liberals didn't like the fact that mere voters could decide whether abortion was legal or not. So they sued and got their way because a panel of appointed judges decided decided for the rest of us (I'm pro-choice btw but I would like to have abortion laws and other laws decided by our elected officials, it's called Democracy).

Al Gore, your "great man" was nothing of the sort. He tried to sue his way to President. He lost Florida fair and square by the rules that were on the books. Yea, it was a close race but he lost based on the law of the land. So he sued. And sued. And eventually it made its way to the Supreme Court and lost. The Supreme Court is the final word. What other option did Gore have? Declare civil war?  I would probably have done the same thing Gore did if roles had been reversed. But there was nothing great invovled at any step of the way. In this case, the panel of judges didn't go the left's way.

on Mar 19, 2004
Hmm... being one of the three mentioned, I'd like to say something. Not in defense, but to point a few things out.

Firstly, welfare is different here. I don't know the exact totals that a single parent with a dependent child can recieve in the States, and it varies here in Ontario. I am existing on an very low amount of money per month. We occasionally need to go to food banks. But, yes, I am in this position because I did not want to get married. I do not believe in abortion for myself. I was just beginning University when I had Kole. But this is where, in my opinion, I can separate myself from those who abuse the system.

I went to school during my pregnancy. 2nd year. Winter break began Dec. 8th. I had her Dec. 15th. I went back to continue on Jan 4th. I went to summer school to catch up on the one course that I dropped. And took another one to still be considered a full-time student while adding to my required courses needed to graduate. It was hellish. Studying, sterilizing bottles, commuting to school, taking her to classes with me because she couldn't get into daycare until she was 9 months old.

I didn't have to. I could have, the whole time up until now, sat on my ass and stayed at home with Kole. I would have qualified to do so. Instead, I got my honours. It took me more time to graduate because instead of taking 5 full courses a year, I took 3 1/2 which still qualifies as full-time study. My grade average before Kole was at 67%. I've got a 83% average, right now and a degree. There is absolutely no reason why I won't be able to get into Teacher's College and land a job teaching. There is a high demand for Aboriginal teachers, and I could go teach on a reserve and not have to pay taxes on my income. This is a treaty right. (only if I teach on a reserve). If I don't (which, to be honest, I won't be doing because I want to live close to my extended family), I will be paying a lot of money in taxes over the course of my working life. Enough to cover the amount of money that I've recieved to date on OntarioWorks? Hell yes.

But this is where I agree with Brad and everyone else. There are people who abuse the system. I see it all the time. My disagreement? For these people, it is charity. For others who have similar circumstances as me, and who will go on like I will, it is assistance. There is a difference. We will pay it back, in the end.

Am I owed it? No. Do I wish for more money? Sure, but not because I want money for myself. I'd love to be able to buy Kole new shoes. Pretty shoes that aren't just functional. All the stuff that she wants because the other kids have it. A bloody bike. But, like I tell her, we'll get it in the end. When I've got that well-earned job. But we are never going to forget this kind of poverty. And for that reason, I can't help but look more hopefully at the people who are on welfare. Who are using it for the time being, until they can properly provide for their children. And for those without children, for themselves. But it does require work, effort and determination in order to get out of this system.
on Mar 20, 2004
Brad, Thanks for at least agreeing with the title. However, after slapping me down justifiably concerning Karmagirl, I assumed you had consummated your catharsis. Now I feel offended for your reference to my “rank hypocrisy” because I juxtaposed two current problems that I deem silly in light of the majority already pretty much accepting civil unions — therefore both Bush and the gays are engaged in a losing and unnecessary battle. I also condemned the Massachusetts courts and the mayor of San Fran for concocting this stupid “wedge” issue, which I also referred to in an earlier blog and abhorring Rosie O’Donnell to boot — if that’s liberalism I don’t want any part of it. Actually I consider myself an old New Deal democrat — and since you believe in a safety net, you are too. For the safety net in its purest terms means assistance for the truly disabled, unemployment insurance, and pensions for the young children of widows — that “single mothers” got wedged in is a fault of a deteriorating culture for which both sides are to blame. In the 30s,widening the net was through public works, and since you are a student of history, you know half our infrastructure we enjoy today was because of the WPA. The New Deal meant that you had to work for a living and contribute to society. My bent is as simple and honest as that.

As for Roe v Wade it was simply a logical offshoot of the rage of the time of women’s lib — so they sowed their oats, not a big deal, why can’t the right get over it? And you should get over the government assistance gals — so what if they don’t pass the nobility test? You still admit, they, though annoying, aren’t bad people and are unaware that they are “disempowered.”

You are tired of left wingers, and I’m tired of right wingers, both of whom are guilty of confiscatory procedures. Peace.

on Mar 20, 2004

Yes Richard but you are the one who writes the "On behalf of Sherye" type articles.  You wrote at teh tail end of this article about championing the poor and such. I don't see the left as champions of the poor. I see them as enslaving the poor by turning them into dependents of the system. Removing entire generations of people from productive society through the invisible chains of welfare dependency.

It is you, not me, that demonizes ones opponents. I may disagree with Wisefawn's views or Sherye's views but I don't demonize them as people. But that's what you did to Bakerstreet and Karmagirl.  And that was BEFORE you wrote this article. Add to that the "On behalf..." articles helping cement the victimology -- those who disagree with "liberal" ideas are just bullies picking on people.

I'm not trying to pick on your article because it's a reasonably well thought out article. It's just kind of the straw that's stressing the camel's back here. Just a little additional dab of "if you disagree with welfare, it's because you are heartless and haven't walked in their shoes."  It's not just you but it's that whole left wing clique of a handful of specific users who seem incapable of grasping that their opponents aren't heartless monsters but actually have given these issues considerable thought over a considerable amount of time and have come to different conclusions. Conclusions that we have been able to vigorously defend.

I would like to mvoe beyond teh welfware debates too. But for that to happen, you guys need to quit writing blogs demonizing your opponents. Look at the sheer quantity of boo-hoo articles you left-wingers have been writing.  Besides the "On behalf.." articles you have the "Dictatorship" article by Sherye and the "It's getting personal" article by Wisefawn and the other "Look, I'm a victim because those mean right-wingers don't let me get away with sweepingly broad statements based on my unresearched opinion..." 

I mean look at the holier-than-thou final paragraph you wrote:

People who bottom out are assessed as shiftless and lacking self-reliance with which all those on the right are gifted, and God forbid the left should champion these dumb asses by taking into account the probability, though surely improbable cases, that they’ve been victimized by conditions beyond their control — let them eat cake should be the posture of true Americans. Yet the left is accused of blindness to the other point of view and should with godlike sensitivity accede to the right’s exclusive wisdom.

I wasn't aware of any conservatives around here behaving as if we have a monopoly on wisdom. On the other hand, Sherye's article (Which prompted you to write your defense of her article) explicitly stated (she deleted the article not surprisingly) "You should try to listen to the views of people who aren't like you. You might learn something from them." To disagree with a liberal is to be unenlightned you see. For the only reason we knuckle-dragging conservatives don't agree with you guys is because we just don't listen and learn from you guys.

So let me conclude by saying this: I believe you are a man of integrity. But I believe you spread yourself thin and weaken your positions when you choose to jump to the "Defense" of people who are debating issues they know nothing about but happen to have similar ideological views to yours. 

Those people who can't put together a coherent argument are going to always take a beating. That's why we put safeguards into JoeUser such as not allowing comments on blogs. Let those who are neophytes at these issues use those features rather than paint themselves out as victims of "mean" "heartless" conservatives who simply have the sin of being able to shred poorly constructed positions.

It's 3am so this whole comment may be a bit incoherent.

 

on Mar 21, 2004
Far from incoherent; it has a unity of expression that assesses me as a generic liberal lacking sensitivity, which you will not let go of, despite my apology to you and Karmagirl. [And you know perfectly well that I was not referring to personal character but rather attitude derived from economic determinism.] 
on Mar 21, 2004
Brad Wardell, after walking away from this nonsense for a bit and reading your comments here again, I now remember why I said that your arguments have lost all meaning to me. And the funny thing is, the more you speak, the more it shows and to many more than just me.
on Mar 24, 2004
My apologies for this on your blog, stevendedalus, and I do not know if you or Mr. Wardell will actually see it, but I need to say it. Mr. Wardell, I did not handle this well. Between the frustration and stress of a situation that I was attempting to take care of, I did not do this well. Being cornered in a blog with someone that had his own agenda and with some here, was an uncomfortable and unpleasant situation. I wanted to answer questions, but needed to be vague so that I could have the proof for something I needed. Now that I have been able to prove what I needed to prove, some of the stress is gone. It was frustrating seeing your comment. I do not want people to think that I would write it is OK to sometimes need assistance, but not be able to admit it if I did. By writing in my blog that I was not on assistance and then coming here to see your first comment, The 3 left of center females are presently receiving government aid., was too frustrating.
I have had times of needing help. As I have written, I needed help for my daughter and at one time, I myself was on Social Security and SSI. On my blog front, it says that I will probably write about abuse, agoraphobia, etc. Which at some point, I would have. It may seem silly to some, but it was important to me that some people do not think that I have no integrity, that I would be on assistance, write that is OK to sometimes need assistance and not admit if I were. That mixed with the stress, made me walk away after writing my gratitude blog. But at the time that all was insisting on knowing, I had to be vague for a reason. I have an income, Mr. Wardell. I work for a small company that is attempting to branch out on the Internet, along with my businesses and my sister and I living together, I may be poor, but I'm OK. And as I said, I did not handle the comments on this blog well.


on Mar 24, 2004
Brad, I am married, I did have a child out of wedlock. I do not receive government assistance at this time. I am a liberal. I am not employed but I did write a book which is selling.
All that I do for people is not paid for by anyone else but our family.
on Jul 15, 2004
Bravo to WF and Sheyre.